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Dec 2 07 10:21 AM
ruby wrote: She unceremoniously dumped all her friends when she met this guy, so we weren't on speaking terms or even really friends anymore when she joined (at her choosing), so I'm not really going to be rushing to contact her any time soon. However, I wouldn't wish CO$ on anyone, and I'm glad she's out. I'd love to know the how's and why's of her leaving, though.
Right now, that friend of yours is in a very vulnerable position. It's likely that she's feeling very scared and alone, having dumped all her non-Scieno friends through cult-mandated disconnection and cutting herself off from all her Scieno acquaintances by leaving the cult (plus, she lost her boyfriend). She probably thinks that she has no-one to turn to and could use a little glimmer of hope. In my humblest opinion, I think you should temporarily put aside the personal hurt over being dumped and reach out to her as a FRIEND. Just let her know that you are still available to talk then leave the decision up to HER to make the next move. There's no way of knowing how she'll respond but at least you've given her the opportunity to be helped. When she's ready, she'll come. She can't come if she doesn't know that you are there for her.
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