"She unceremoniously dumped all her friends when she met this guy..."

ruby, I don't mean to tell you how to live your life, but anyone who would 'unceremoniously [dump] all her friends' was not a true friend to begin with. It's good that she's out of the CO$, but it seems a waste of your time to follow up on her. Frankly, I wouldn't want to be within a mile of anybody who'd ever been involved with the Hubbardites.